புதன், 7 ஜூலை, 2010

An Appetiser for Marketing

An Appetiser for Marketing

"People often tell me that motivation doesn't last, and I tell them that bathing doesn't either. That's why I recommend it daily." - Zig Ziglar

The “Why” of marketing

v Marketing is the nerve-centre of any business activity. It is more so in case of service organisations like banks.

v Every bank has made a huge technology spend and the conventional replenishment for outgoing manpower – be it due to retirement, attrition, and other factors is hard to come by in any bank. This is especially more true in the case of our Bank where the Cost-to-Income Ratio is still higher than many other peer banks.

v Marketing should begin at Home. With more than 2.2 crore customers, bank’s prime focus should be to sell at least a minimum of 2 more products to our customers

v Earning a new customer is 5 times difficult than retaining an existing customer

v While focusing on special products like CMS for Corporates, group insurance policies, the Branch Manager should necessarily move out and canvass new business. T the in house team comprising of ABM, officers and award staff should focus on better customer care and customer retention.

v Remember - Marketing Begins with – Customer Care and with - Customer Retention

v Even small size banks and co-operative banks have the latest technology. In the 2010-11 Budget proposals, NBFCs and Corporates will be allowed to open bank branches.

v The comfort zone which we were in may no longer be there. Even under Financial Inclusion Space, where PSBs took genuine pride earlier may not be available in full hereafter. RBI is contemplating linkages for banks with NGOs, Primary Agricultural Societies and Business Correspondents. The target for all banks is to provide banking outlet to 1.09 lakh villages(out of total 6 lakh villages) with a population of 2000 before March 2011

v Unless we are alert and continue to market our services, our market share will be taken by others and the pride of place which we enjoyed as a leading public sector financial service provider may be hard to retain.

v With a bigger pay packet, the expectation for performance will be more from our stake-holders to whom we have to present our results every quarter.

v Now that you are convinced that the Mantra is Marketing, Marketing and the response is performance, performance.

v Each one of us has to market – market ourselves and the Bank to remain competitive and survive.

v Are we seeing the writing on the wall?

v Let every one of us be classified under “Marked to Market” category, irrespective of the scale, position to which we belong.

v Are you ready? Let us venture into some marketing tips.

1. Personal Traits to be developed for marketing

Story: A group of frogs arranged a race. Their target was to reach the top of the tall TV tower nearby. A large crowd gathered to watch them. The race began. Nobody in the crowd believed that those tiny frogs could make to the tower. After a few minutes the crowd started yelling “Impossible” “poor frogs” “could not make it”. On hearing these all frogs except one tiny frog dropped out of the race. The little frog after some more effort was able to reach the top of the Tower. Everyone in the crowd asked: how you alone can make it when all others failed? It turned out that the frog was deaf and could not hear the negative feelings echoed by the crowd.

The moral of the story that is applicable to every marketing person is that

1. One should have a positive Attitude

2. Be deaf to the negative criticism of others

3. Prove by performance that they are wrong

l You must have experienced, in your day to day banking, that there are certain customers who come to the branch only to interact with and have the business transacted through you. That shows that each one of you has an Unique Selling Proposition( USP ) and that is YOU. Recent studies also confirm that 39% of a customer's decision to buy from your Bank is based on the effectiveness of your sales person than on the product sold.

No more excuses as to who should market. It is You and only You.

To sum up, the 8 qualities a marketing person in you should develop are:

S,No.

Traits

What it means

Attitude

Having the feeling “I Can, I Can” “I Will, I Will”

Sociability /Networking

Enjoying careers dealing with people rather than things.

Self-confidence

Believe you have the knowledge and ability to be successful at whatever they attempt

Composure

Not easily discouraged or frustrated by problems.

Tough-minded

Can accept strong criticism, do not become easily upset, and recover quickly when things go wrong

Endurance

Practice long and hard, and will not give up easily on problems.

Ambition

Strong desire to reach higher levels of achievement

Control

Do not speak or act without considering the consequences

Commonly felt/expressed objections to marketing :

S.No.

Objection

Answer

1

I am not a designated marketing person. Why should I do marketing

This comfort zone is no longer available to us in the face of increasing competition. If the question still persists in your mind, please read once again the introductory page.

2

I have put long years of service. I cannot change at this point of time

An eagle which has a life span of 70 years, develops the following problems at 40 years:

  1. Its claw which enables it to grab its prey is no longer flexible
  2. Long and sharp beak becomes bent
  3. Old heavy wings, stuck to chest, make it difficult to spread and fly

The eagle has only 2 options – die without food and undergo a painful process lasting 150 days. It chooses the later option by going to hill top, knocking its beak against a rock until it plucks out,wait for new beak; then pluck out its talons, wait for new talons to grow and pluck old-aged feathers to grow afresh and resume its normal activity thereafter. Do you and I have any choice for not changing?

3

The Bank has not treated me properly, I was not given the place of posting I needed, not promoted when I should have been, others less-deserving got

Chetan Bhagat in his address to ISB students in 2008 says employees in all organisations in India have the following common characteristings

v A sense of Disappointment

v Frustration

v Loneliness

v Feeling a sense of unfairness

It is not exclusive to your bank.

This can be overcome only with a positive attitude. Read again the frog story

4

There are a large number of products, which I cannot remember. To be precise I do not have adequate product knowledge

True. This is a common problem. Here technology comes to your rescue. When a customer asks you about Special Home Loan in stead of applying the “Thumb Rule” i.e. showing your hand backwards, what you can do is that you can make a initial search of the products in your help desk under “Products Palette”, give a quick go-through and ask Sir/Madam : If this is your first house you can avail this. For detailed discussion you can contact our loan officer or BM. This kind of response enhances your value and you also become an useful point of contact for the customer.

S.No.

Objection

Answer

5

Hey! You are telling me ad hoc solutions in customer management.

Please make it a point to attend all training programs at IMAGE/STCs/CLCs. There you can update your product knowledge and you gain more practical tips by interacting with your colleagues.

6

Any useful tools are there by which I can just click the product and get immediate information

Yes. IMAGE has made this year. Go to the file given below at the end of the table, follow instructions therein. It contains hyperlinks to various products in the intranet and it is to be only ported on your desktop.

7

All said and done there should be a rewards and recognition system in place!

Agreed. In another handful of years, the entire banking system will launch a very large search for senior level postings, as there will be a large vacuum at the top. People who have right-skilled and upskilled themselves will sure to find the climb in the career ladder very very easy. You need not be surprised if double or triple promotions become the order of the day!

8

You said about my USP. What about the Bank’s USP

Indian Bank is a lucky bank. Whoever banks with it shall definitely prosper. You can quote so many instances from your own experience. Can’t you!

v It is backed by 104 years experience; still young and vibrant

v Continues to make headlines in all financial papers by winning various awards

v Its technology platform is far, far superior than even some of the best private sector banks – be it our Net Banking or RTGS – to name a few

v Fortune will smile on you if you bank with Indian Bank

9

Can a comparison of deposit rates / loan rates for specified products like home loan, vehicle loan, etc. can be ported on the helpdesk with periodical updates

Already our Idea Cell is seized of the matter and you can expect not only product comparison, but also marketing tips for various products

9

What mistake we normally commit in marketing

In marketing “timing” your sale is most important. When a home loan customer extends his Gruha Pravesh invitation to you, can you not say why don’t you also take Indian Bank Laxmi –in Gold – to your new house!

Requisites for a successful marketing person

l Know what has to be done every day

l Meetings are to be carefully planned and executed

l Prioritize and recognize the difference between "urgent," "important," "marginal," and "if I could."

l Each day, make a list of tasks that need to be accomplished

l Assess customer feedback, market share measurements and response time

l Understand and know the facts and figures

l Don't watch the clock.

l Stay focused on your team, your bank, your goals

l Do not allow outside matters to distract you.

l Be ready to go the extra mile to help your team achieve their personal and professional goals.

l Break traditional rules and operate outside standard guidelines, while staying within the letter of the law

l Be excited about your job, team, bank and life and exude excitement that's contagious

l Remain positive and professional

l Carry out your plans and make good promises.

l Never ridicule, disrespect or display sarcasm when dealing with employees or customers, regardless of their behavior.

l Read magazines and watch the market so that you don’t lag behind

l Use technology to stay ahead. Websites, e-mail magazines etc

l Know nothing is easy

l If you fail, they spend enough time thinking about what went wrong so they can fix it on the next try and they don't fall victim to "analysis paralysis."

l develop positive personality - difficult at the beginning – persist

l health, breathe, posture, speech, and appearance

l Good posture means avoiding unnecessary tension of muscles

l Voice - very expressive, pleasant and attract customers

l Develop Mental traits - accuracy, alertness, imagination, initiative, observation

l Customers do not like hurried salespersons as well as slow one.

l Visualise the felt need of customers

l Drive ego

l Think and decide instead of being told everything to done

l Keen observation to sort out the problems

l Ability to meet the public and open up new territories.

l Be polite and generous

l Keep up appointments

l Acquire information as to the policies behind the products for a directed sale and justify product cost

l Understand the buying motives - fear, profit, pride, comfort, fashion, health, and habit.

l Remember you aren't just a sales person you're a buyer too

l Provide visual cue's even when you're selling a service as seeing truly is believing

l Social acceptance. Testimonials are an excellent way to demonstrate this.

l Avoid objection response debate - let the prospect do most of the talking throughout the sale conversation

l You might say, "if I were sitting in your chair I'd be wondering about...if you don't mind I'd like to share a story with you about (this very concern)."

l Avoid the common mistake – Avoid responding to first objection.

l Then ask them, "if there were a way to remove the objections you've just share with me would you be ready to make this purchase?“

l This filters out the people who aren't prospects

l Difference between a good sales person and a great sales person is persistence

l Get them talking, Uncover their problems, Present your products/services as solutions ,It's that easy. But it all starts with getting your sales prospects and customers talking.

l Here's a rock-solid open-ended question. Take it and use it to grow your business.

l "What would it take to win your Best Service Brand of the South for consecutive 5 years?“

l Wouldn't you love to know the answer to this question?

l Provide your service exceeding their expectations

l Develop a system to build a relationship with your clients leading to repeat business and referrals

l Just doing something is not marketing

To sum up - ABCs of Marketing...

  • Ask and it shall be given... Knock and all doors of market will open to you
  • Bring forth the gifts which are within you.. and that is what will help your selling.
  • Clean hands, pure hearts, just causes... having these are what creates a harmonious, stress free marketing.
  • Defer not doing any good to your fellow living beings... you are selling a service - once dissatisfied, they will not pass through your way again.
  • Experience is the truest, best, and only real teacher to get a 360° view of sale.
  • Forgive everyone everything now - forgiving is not condoning or forgetting but a letting go of your pain so that you are focused on future growth
  • Guide generously on products at all times - for what you give out now is what you will receive back in the future.
  • Healing your wounds allows you to find your gifts... using those gifts always leads you to your highest sales performance
  • Instruct others by living your life the best way you can... your sales performance will speak louder than your words.
  • Judge not, lest ye be judged... better to let nature have its own course.
  • Killer instinct in sales is not about punishing, it is about teaching: the quicker you achieve success, the happier you will be.
  • Love all, harm none, friendly to all, enemy to none... will bring out the good salesperson in you.
  • Mindful, heartful, joyful, and loving... this is how your co-worker would like to view you for motivation
  • Noises of joy are most pleasing to God's ear...make good sales noise after each successful performance
  • Open minded, kind hearted, enthusiastic, thoughtful in word and deed... this is the perfected state of a sales person
  • Performance in sales depends on your attitude – your weaponry should be smile and courtesy
  • Quicker to listen than to speak.
  • Random acts of loving kindness change interaction to business in the long run.
  • Smile and Serve and be a solution provider – that is what sales means.
  • Truth, necessity, and kindness: these are the rules to guide all your thinking, speaking, doing, and being.
  • Use your God-given gifts to help and encourage others
  • Victory over hardships and adversities are designed to help you grow
  • Walk humbly and lightly through life so that your footprints will inspire and uplift the paths of others – Be sincere but not serious
  • X factor in sale - life is a choice, love to interact at every moment, and all will be well.
  • You will be a super salesperson if only you believe you can.
  • Zeal for creating the greater good, improving your own benchmarks will raise your self-esteem and also raise your value in the eyes of other

THIS IS DEFINITELY NOT PREVENTIVE VIGILANCE

THIS IS DEFINITELY NOT PREVENTIVE VIGILANCE

 Rules are meant to help people - not to harass them

One customer goes to a branch – tells the officer that he is changing his signature and hands over the revised specimen signature card . He further requests, not only once but twice, that his revised signature may please be captured in the system so that when he issues a cheque with the new signature it will be passed. Alas! The cheque when presented in clearing was returned with the remark “signature differs”. When the customer approaches the branch, there is some new officer in that seat, who insisted on proof of having delivered such request even to listen to the incident. The customer, feeling helpless, chose not to complain.

 Taking risks are part of normal banking.

The fear of anything untoward happening can at best should be a warning factor and not a factor for procrastination

One of our administrative offices has issued a cheque payable to Chennai Telephones. It carries 2 signatures and one signature is not captured. The branch returned the cheque to another branch which sent this with a remark, “ signature does not tally – needs confirmation “. The branch which had returned could have called the administrative offices( telephone number written behind the cheque)

 Banking is nothing but common sense

One customer approaches the branch with copies of his account statements downloaded from internet ; he wants the officer to authenticate the statements as he is submitting them to U K High Commission. The officer refused to sign the statements saying that these accounts are kept at other branches and that he can sign only for the statement pertaining to that particular branch. The moral of the story is that we are still in branch banking conveniently forgetting that we can access all branches of the Bank.

 Compliance in the normal way

One customer approached the branch for return of his home loan documents. Even after a lapse of 6 months it was not returned even though the loan was closed. The customer was hearing stories / excuses all along for non-return of the documents. The branch is blissfully unaware of the commitment the Bank has made to its customers under BCSBI that the title deeds should be returned by branch pro-actively within 15 days of loan closure failing which penalty can be claimed by the customer

 Putting blame on technology

A senior citizen approached the branch for interest on his deposits. He was informed that TDS has been deducted by the system. The customer said he has already given 15H but somehow reconciled to the branch action. He asked for the TDS certificate and found an excess of Rs.16 having been deducted in his account. The officer coolly said it is the system that makes such entries and that he has no control over the system generated data

 Casualness in approach

In another case a customer was issued an ATM card. The customer when he tried the card at various ATMs got frustrated and came back to the branch. 2 or 3 visits were made by the customer. Finally it was found that the branch did not activate the card in its system. It was told to customer “it was a system error and since rectified”




 Delay in a relay

A customer demanded cheque book. On its own, the branch chose to recommend to CDPC for issue of a name printed cheque. The customer needed a cheque book immediately. The beautiful cheque book with name was received after 15 days. Again the callous response was “we have to take extreme care in issuing cheque books to prevent frauds”. The customer could have been given an ordinary cheque book.

 Empathize to excel

A retired employee of the bank approached for closure and renewal of his term deposit for earning the revised rate of interest as permitted in the manual. In handling this type of foreclosure, manual intervention is also required as the system calculated interest differential through the relevant module has to be manually vouched. The concerned staff did not vouch the difference and as a result the customer lost nearly Rs.1800 which was later found.


The rules are there and will always be there. They are meant only to protect the interests of the customer, the bank and its staff.

Banking is a function of both heart and brains. The man behind the machine is as relevant today as it was 100 years ago.

To sum up

 Take good care of your customers
 Take good care of your bank
 You have already mastered Preventive Vigilance

திங்கள், 27 ஜூலை, 2009

My Bank

WE LOVE OUR BANK

We Walk the Talk and Make a Mark -
That is Indian Bank

Work we smart and share the heart
We will cultivate as an art

Our goal is one and second to none
We remain common man’s bank

Technology we would love to take
To every nook and corner

Customer-centric smiling service
We owe it to all

We do remember we are in business
Due only to them

Our India Great and Indian Bank is Great
We make every day a treat

We love our Bank and see her grow
Ahead of all other Banks

Smart Working Vs Hard working

Don’t Work Hard, Work Smart

When the only tool you own is a hammer, every problem begins to resemble a nail - Abraham Maslow

Working smarter, not harder, is an age-old adage. If we master the concept of smart-working, our entire working life shall turn out to be better and easier than the routine, run-of-the-mill, monotonous, lack-lustre type we are quite accustomed to.

Before going in to the nitty-gritty of the issue, let us analyse the meaning of the word “Smart”.

Smart as an adjective has the following positive attributes:
Elegant, neat, tidy, stylish, chick(bright and fresh in appearance), well-dressed, well turned-out, well-groomed (shabby), fashionable, upmarket (expensive and of high quality), intelligent, quick.
If somebody says don’t be smartish – don’t come to a conclusion so quickly. Smart as a verb has negative connotations like - give a sharp, stinging pain, feel upset and annoyed.
In these days of smart card – a plastic card on which information is stored in electronic form - try to solve this puzzle:
A woman had two sons who were born on the same hour of the same day of the same year. But they were not twins. How could this be so?
The answer is given at the end of the article.
Smart, as a verb, conveys a negative meaning - give a short stinging pain, feel upset and annoyed.

There are simple techniques that you can employ to save steps and tedium from almost any task.







How a Smart worker performs

 Assess everything that needs to be done.
 Before you plunge in headfirst, remember that enthusiasm needs to be tempered with wisdom.
 Look over every aspect of the job, and allow yourself ample "pondering time" so that you can be sure that every detail is accomplished on time, and accurately.
 Make an outline
 Have a checklist in mind, and follow it to the letter, and in order - you don't want to repeat steps, duplicate the efforts of others, or make mistakes so that you definitely don't want to forget anything.
 Consider your materials
 Don't take shortcuts, when possible, on the quality of your tools i.e. don’t be penny-wise .
 Follow your plan and don't deviate from it - unless you must
 Once you've assessed the job and come up with a plan, it's usually best to stick with the plan.
 Be prepared to think on your feet, and be resourceful.
 Nimble thinking is essential to working smart, especially when something goes wrong.
 Following a plan slavishly, in spite of new information, developments, or problems is just plain dumb.
 Be flexible and change if you need to
 Delegate to the right people at the right times
 Make sure your team is well-ordered. If one person is faster, put him or her on the part of your task that will take longest. If one person is more skilled and accurate, put him or her on the part of the task that is most critical.
 Prepare simultaneously to cross sell
 This means that there may be four or five, for example, components to your job which can be synchronized and delivered to the customer when you close the sale e.g.. issue of passbook, chequebook, ATM cards, internet banking, etc.
 Control clients by communicating properly
 Many times, it's hard to work smart because your clients will insist that their job is a big rush.
 Instead of scrambling to get that job done, make sure your clients understand in the initial meeting what your normal turnaround time for their job would be.
 If you know you will need two weeks, don't let the client squeeze you into one week unless that client is willing to pay extra/provide spin-off for the rush. Most businesses have more than one client, yet many clients forget that their job is not the only one you're working on.





 Stick to your policies
 If you look for additional business / charge extra to rush a job, don't deviate from that, ever. It's unfair to apply policies to some customers and not others.
 Just let them know that you are willing to rush their jobs, but by doing so, you must move other customers who were "in line" before them out of the way - causing you to run those jobs behind. This is smart - it lets your clients know that you really know your stuff, plus it relieves your schedule or makes you more money.
 Give one to three choices - never more – Like a curtain dealer handing a swatch book to a client and saying, "Tell me which colors you are interested in" is deadly.
 Too many choices will cause horrible delays as the customer peruses. You can also attempt to influence the client in the direction you think best for his purpose.
 Use your expertise to narrow down the critical choices right away. Sell the best stuff even if it costs a few rupees more
 Never willingly trap yourself into accepting a bad job
 You know when a job is going to be great. You also know when you get that "uh-oh" feeling that something is not right. A client or boss who pressures you into areas where you are not comfortable, either because it is an unreasonable expectation or because it's outside your scope needs to be aware immediately of your discomfort with the job as proposed.
 If you work for hours and end up not being paid all or part of what you worked for - especially when you were sweating bullets over it the whole time - is not smart. And it's the hardest work you'll ever do.
 Work whole heartedly in your job - Hit every job with everything you've got.
 Getting it done quickly and efficiently - while you have the time - is much smarter than looking at the schedule and telling yourself you have three more days to get it done.
 Running out the clock on jobs when you don't absolutely need to can force a rush at the finish line, or worse, deprives you of opportunities you might not have otherwise.
 Recognize the point of 'diminishing returns.
 Do not work yourself to the point of exhaustion. You need to protect your health and the integrity of your job.
 Working yourself to a frazzle constantly makes you prone to mistakes..
 When you're so tired that you realize it's taking you twice or three times longer to do a job than normal, you need to call it a day.
 Rest at least a few hours, and come back fresher, so that you can be strong at the end of the job. Learn how to power nap.
 Finish strong
 Being dead tired and sluggish at the finish line is not smart - it's foolish
 Plan to present your finished product proudly, knowing that everything has been done to ensure that the client will be happy.
 Let your confidence spill over to the client so that you can see the client smiling and appreciative of the work you've done for him or her. This works for any project you have to do in life.
 When you can work, do. Don't slack or allow time to run out so that you're rushing at the end to meet a deadline.
 When you're sick, stay home and rest until you are well. You make too many mistakes when you're ill or tired to call that "working smart."
 Learn to make your money work for you. Working a lot and spending every penny you make is NOT working smart!
 Don't allow yourself to be suckered into making "just a little adjustment" which may ultimately harm your career goals
 Finally sharpen your axe ! – a smart worker is always updated


Smart work in a nut shell implies


 Study the whole issue
 Meet the deadlines
 Always be prepared to work efficient and look effortless
 Ride on the strength of your team
 Throttle the workflow for successful delivery

The purpose of this article is definitely not to outsmart you? Don’t brand me as a smart alec - a person who irritates others by always having a clever answer to a question


Answer to the puzzle:
Ans. :They were two of a set of triplets (or quadruplets, etc.).
This puzzle stumps many people and they try outlandish solutions involving test tube babies or surrogate mothers. Why do we search for complex solutions when there is a much simpler one available?
This is an example of thinking smart.




Customer Care – a few Tips
 The Greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be ignored.
 To help someone out and the person doesn’t even say thank you
 To lose the person you love so much to another who doesn’t care at all.
 To have someone you care so much about, throw a party.and not tell you about it
 When your favorite person on earth neglects to invite you to his wedding party.

 To have people think you don’t care.

 The Greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be forgotten.

 To be left in the dust after another’s great achievement.

 To never get a call from a friend, just to say “Hi” When you show someone your innermost thoughts and he laughs in your face.

 For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift your spirits.

 When it seems like the only person who cares about you is you.

Life is full of pain, but does it ever get better?

 Will people ever care about each other, and make time for those who are in need?

 Each of us has a part to play in this great show called Life.

 Each of us has a duty to mankind to tell our customers/ friends we love them.

 If you do not care about your friends, you will not be punished. You will simply be ignored….forgotten…. as you have done to others.

 However, if you do not care about your customers, you will be punished – coupled with loss of image and business

 It takes so little of your time to smile, give a hug, a word of encouragement or just to say “I care”

 CARE ! that is what the customer always looks to!

HAVE YOU SHARPENED YOUR AXE ?
We all work and generally work hard – some times very hard !!! Generally our work is repetitive in nature. We call it experience. But we observe that with passage of time, our efficiency level drops down, our output decreases, we miss out some important aspects. Though we work harder for longer duration and carry the tension of the work home too !!! We constantly think about work, work and work. Why this happens ??
Read the following story …….
A young man approached the foreman of a logging crew and asked for a job. "That depends," replied the foreman. "Let's see you fell this tree." The young man stepped forward and skilfully felled a great tree. Impressed, the foreman exclaimed, "You can start Monday." Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday rolled by.
Thursday afternoon the foreman approached the young man and said, "You can pick up your pay check on the way out today." Startled, the young man replied, "I thought you paid on Friday." "Normally we do," said the foreman. "But we're letting you go today because you've fallen behind. Our daily felling charts show that you've dropped from first place on Monday to last place today."
"But I'm a hard worker," the young man objected. "I arrive first, leave last and even have worked through my coffee breaks!" The foreman, sensing the young man's integrity, thought for a minute and then asked, "Have you been sharpening your axe?"
The young man replied, "No sir, I've been working too hard to take time for that!"
Our lives are like that. We sometimes get so busy that we don't take time to "sharpen the axe.” In today's world, it seems that everyone is busier than ever but less happy than ever. Why is that?
Is it that we have forgotten how to stay sharp? There's nothing wrong with activity and hard work. But God doesn't want us to get so busy that we neglect the truly important things in life, like taking time to pray, to read and study and most importantly listen to “the still small voice of God.”
When we come home from work, we take out all office related things like office keys, visiting card valet; visiting cards collected during the day, pen, car keys etc. and put them at safe place till you need them for office the next day. We take out used handkerchiefs, socks and other things and put them in laundry bag for cleaning/washing. We also take out useless papers, paper napkins and other useless matters and put them in dust bins.
Similarly when you return home – store all your office related planning, decisions, thinking and ideas in a small imaginary box for next office day.
AND put all the uncertainties, worries and confusion of work in an imaginary laundry box – and submit it to God for doing needful. HE will clean them all make them clear and re-usable. And all the disposables like tensions, fears, frustrations of work – put them in dust bin or in toilet sit and flush them away.
Then relax, listen to music, talk with your family, contribute to house hold work, watch TV, play with your grand children (I have them with me – I am lucky) and enjoy. Pray !!!
This will freshen you up ! !